When packing to leave Provence and head back to Paris, I was able to contemplate one of the great travel mysteries - why is it that when we pack to begin our trip our clothes and possessions are so organized and fit in the luggage so beautifully. But upon returning, with the same clothes and stuff, it always seems to take up more room as if fighting its return to real life.
Since my return I continue to reflect on our trip and the contrasts in scenery, culture, lifestyle. the changes in color, whites and earth tones of the casual dress in Provence, to the blacks and browns of New York. The proliferation of chain stores, the return to Starbucks and chinese foods, to an oversized washing machine, and a hard, driving, stimulating shower with endless hot water. To feel sad as I contemplate having to return to shopping in a American grocery store full of tasteless, over-processed, over-sprayed with chemicals produce and frozen food.
The stark contrast as I drive the roads here still full of oversized gas-guzzling SUVs, in comparison to the Europeans who still drive smaller cars with better fuel efficiency and more style. We do not see many American built cars there except for Ford who sells Mondeos and other smaller vehicles, including with diesel engines that they do not sell in the US. We did notice more Prius' on the road this year than in the past.
I think of the differences every time I open my oversized three-door refrigerator with the filtered water dispenser, after using a half-sized refrigerator and finding I could manage most of the time, but had to be very conscious of what I was purchasing and when I was planning on using it.
The pace of life and the lifestyle is so different. For the Europeans to sit for hours over a meal is normal. For us, we are rushing to move on to the next activity, to return to work, to run to the gym, while they linger and talk, and eat very slowly, deliberately, enjoying their food, not inhaling it.
I was also reminded again, as I am every summer, of how we never converted to the Metric system, despite plans to do so and join the rest of the world. I remember being taught in school that we would be transitioning but it never happened. What a shame, so now when we travel and hear the weather forecast, or see a road sign, we have to go through gyrations to convert over. I have generalized now with weather, to triple the numbers for the temperature, and halve the numbers for road distance, but know that I am inaccurate and inadequate at this.
Each summer we purchase a few small items to bring more of France back to our home, from dried lavender and roses, to soap, to Provence pottery or a table clothe, so we can continue the feelings we had there, here in our home, and continue to look forward to next summer, and begin again to plan next year's adventure.
As part of that planning this year as I locate articles I will post the links here so we can all enjoy and dream of next year in Provence.